Dating is never a fairy land that gives you all good and nothing bad. While looking for your love, you are moving with real people and hence you must be prepared to find Mr. Rights and Mr. Wrongs. If you have unrealistic expectations, you will only land on frustrations, disappointments and wrong choices. People well experienced with dating pass on a few tips that will detail you the mistakes to avoid while dating. Read on to know what not to do while you seriously look for your love.
Never feel entitled
Write down the reasons why a man will not want to date you. This will open up your eyes about the aspects to improve about yourself. Never go with preconceived notions about yourself that will stop from making any changes or improvements to your personality and attitude.
Do not think you have endless options in front of you
When you go for shopping, you might not be content with all that is on offer. You keep looking and only when you feel you have come to an end of whatever is on the display, you will feel like going for one. In the same way, just because you find enough profiles online, never go with the notion that you have endless options in front of you. This will only keep you searching for that fanciful someone missing out the good profiles you will come across.
Never be judgmental
Most men feel women are highly judgmental. For a question on why would they not go on a date with someone, a women will give 300 answers while men will say not more than 3 answers. Most men do not keep analyzing women to the micro-level as women do.
Do not be highly choosy
While embarking on an online dating, we usually make judgments based on the objective criteria like height and sports preferences rather than the subjective aspects like attraction. It is possible to gain an idea of them only when you meet the person in reality. Never be misguided by the information on the profiles of men either to imagine something falsely or to rule out something by mistake.
Do not tend to pick dominating men
Most women always wish to go with alpha men meaning they always wish to see if someone is better than the one they have chosen. Remember, those in the average category based on your judgment might probably make a good life partner to you than the super charming one who might not even call you back or make you happy after you are married to him.
Never think men expect you to share all of their interests
People can get interested with different things. It is impractical to expect someone to share all of your interests. In fact, no man might not expect it from you. The guy you choose need not be the one-stop shop for all your needs. If there are some points where both of you meet to appreciate and acknowledge in each other, that will see the life going together when you will be happily married.